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Please HELP! I need to make her first lesbian experience memorable!!? I absolutely adore this girl as a friend, and I am also very attracted to her physically. I am a lesbian and she is bi-curious. I invited her to come over to my place this Friday, and she said yes! I really want to take that opportunity to make some kind of move on her. We've only hung out a few times, but I'm pretty sure any advances I make will not be rejected because she told me on one occasion that she is very into me. But here is the problem: I don't know how to make the first move! In the past it was always the other girl taking the initiative. I really want to knock the socks off this girl and give her the best lesbian experience ever! And how far should I try and go? | skip the alcohol, make it 100% real.
| Should I give my best friend her first lesbian experience? My best friend is bi curious and she wants her first time to be with me. I am just worried it will ruin our friendship. It has happened to me once. | | If you are just as curious then go for it, but make it clear that it is just an experience and not a relationship | How do you tell your first lesbian experience girl, that you aren't really into her? So I got a confession from a friend that she had her first experience with a married chick with three guys. Well she says she likes having sex with girls, but not the relationship portion of it, especially with the same girl who was her first. She also said that the girl isn't very attractive and it's mainly sex. Now their relationship is always up/down bc the married bi-girl caught feelings. Is it possible to only be sexually attracted to a woman? What should she tell her friend that she just isn't that in to?
BTW-my friend is discovering who she really is, I'm guessing she's gay but hasn't really accepted it yet. | Wow, that's hot - a married mom of three getting down with a lesbian. Sorry, it is just very sexy.
I don't know the answer here. Your friend is going to have to figure it out herself. | How can I make her feel comfortable (first time lesbian experience)? One of my guy friends (we're sexually involved only) is flying his ex-girlfriend down in the next few weeks and would like for us to have a 3some. She's never been with a girl before , so what are some ways he and especially I can make her feel more comfortable with the idea and ease her into it? He asked me to text her today and introduce myself- so any tips for our 'textversations' would be useful also. Thanks! | | i guess just be really honest and genuine with her. its awkward and whether or not you say it, you both know it. hopefully he told her about it... i mean you can't MAKE her want to do it, but if you act like its no big deal and get her excited about it i'm sure she'll be more comfortable with it. you should probably try just getting to know her first and then "ease" her into the converstation. sounds fun though! | My first lesbian experience was bad cause i was not very attracted? to her and afterwards i felt like i had been raped. Anyway my subconscious mind has been looking for someone who can make up for the first experience but consciously i don,t want another lesbian realltionship. Unfortunately my subconscious mind makes me say suggestive things to attractive women.maybe a day or a week later i realise wot i have said eg your big (boobs), i just need some encouragement, just one time (sex)),etc etc how can i stop saying this stuff? | | aww. im so sorry that happened. u were too anxious. if u want a better experience, wait for someone u are sexually attracted to. | Do I collar my friend over her lesbian kiss or drop it and look elsewhere? I'm female. My female best friend of fifteen years, Jessica, (we are both mid-20s) recently kissed a friend of hers, Hayley. To all intents and purposes Jessica and I are both straight. According to Jessica this was her first lesbian experience. But, her and I actually kissed for a dare at a party. I've told her that I'm annoyed that she hasn't acknowledged it, but she says that she was drunk and can't remember the dare kiss with me.
Basically, I'm jealous. But I don't know if I'm jealous that Jessica has had the guts to act on her feelings and get something she wanted (although she insists it was just experimentation and she's not interested in following the experience up with her friend) or if I'm hurting because it's as though she's rebuffed me (and that hurts when anyone does it), or, finally, whether it's because I harbour secret feelings for Jessica.
Around ten yrs ago Jessica and I had a phase whereby we would hug before bed and if we were staying at each others, would always hug in bed together. This was all upon her request. She even once played with herself while I was over at hers one night. And one night she thought I was asleep and put her arm over me as I 'slept'. I enjoyed all of this... I liked the feeling of intimacy. We were very close. Not long after, she got her first proper boyfriend, and I can't remember being too upset when we stopped being touchy feely. I think I just thought it was a nice thing and maybe hoped that if she felt like revisiting it then it would be with me and not with some other girl!!
Last year we both admitted that we are bi-curious... I had had a crush on my friend from university, and Jessica was tempted by a bisexual friend of hers, Andrea.
Also, the other day reference was made to Jessica's sexuality and a male friend of ours asked Jessica, in front of me, whether or not she fancied me. Her answer was that she had known me too long and that she has never felt that way about anyone once she's got to know them as a friend.
Basically, I want to talk to Jessica about all of this but I'd like some advice or guidance first. I'm feeling quite mixed up and I'd hate to attempt to initiate something that I later regretted... our friendship comes first. Also, I'm stubborn and don't want to get hurt... she's my mate and I love her to bits but she's got a bit of an ego and I'd hate to be adding to her flurry of admirers... I'm only interested if she's interested in me...
I have a feeling you're all going to tell me she's not, though.
I'm just annoyed that she seems to be blocking out the intimacy that occurred between us....
Also, to add insult to injury, I don't know Hayley to talk to but she's told a mutual friend that she doesn't like me!! (I'm a nice girl, honestly, but by all accounts Hayley is a bit crazy and not liked by all).
I only want kind answers, please... no need for nastiness! Thank you, xxx
| Play it safe and just carefully test the waters. It may be a good idea to wait and let Hayley introduce her to female-on-female relationships; if things don't work out with Hayley but she decides she does like girls, you'll be there. As a friend, be supportive of her choices, even if they mean you don't always get what you want. If things are meant to work out between the two of you, she'll come around. You cannot force open the petals of a flower. Don't be jealous of Hayley; it's not her fault.
Also, thank you for typing in complete and grammatically-correct sentences, as well as using paragraphs to separate thoughts. I see them so seldom here on Yahoo! answers and it's a nice change. | What was your first lesbian experience like? I kinda just had mine and I want to know how it compares to some other ones. I'm a little too embarrassed to go into too much detail on an internet site, but can you please make yours kinda detailed? In case you're wondering, I got eaten out by my friend in her car. It was great. :) | based on your other questions, you're a guy and a girl who had sex with a guy, but now with a girl?
anyway, it was really hot. :P | Would this be the ideal first lesbian experience?
I know there is no such thing as ideal, but you get my point... I have been curious about being with a women for sometime now, I am 19, currently a student, and haven't told anyone except for my best friend, and she suggested that it would be best to be with an older woman because of her experience. I also happen to find older woman attractive, even though I am young, so has any girl experienced this kind of situation and could share her advice with me? remember, I am trying to be discreet, so you could also tell me what else could I try? (no silly answers please) | | could be | Your first lesbian experience?(lesbians and bisexual women only..haha duh)? please share your first lesbian experience with me?im fifteen and hav feelings for another girl.id like to compare your stories/feelings to mine. Please tell EVERYTHING about the relationship.how often did you want to kiss her?what was it like to kiss her?how did you meet?how did your parents react/find out? Did they know about it? Wat made you attracted to her?who made the first move? How? What made you love her/ like her as much as you did? What did she look like?androgynous?girly?what you thought about her before you were together? Just basically tell me your story.:) than ya:)
p.s.her name is anna (onna) and she is amazing.ive never wanted anyone so much in my life.her laugh, her smile, her pale, pale skin and black as night hair...she is so beautiful.and her personality is amazing...shes smart and funny and she's also really tall (5'10?) and the most kissable lips in the world belong to her.i really hope she likes me back.:) thanx guys xoxo | Your girl sounds amazing. You should really express that love to her and i'm sure she will feel the same way.
uhhmm..so yeah i was 13 and she was about your age. She was my brothers girlfriend at the time. Her name was Veronica. Me and her were actually really good friends (or so i thought) mainly because she would be at my house all the time and we would spend so much time together. She had these gorgeous blue eyes, straight black hair, pale skin, and had a pretty slim frame. She was more of the bad *** girly type. I guess you can say she had emo potential.
Anyways, yeah i though she was attractive, but i really thought nothing of it. i would have never thought it would form into something else. I always liked Veronica because she really did not give a f*ck about what anybody thought of her and she did what she wanted to do. She was fun and exciting. One summer me, my brother and veronica were swimming at our house. I was lounging and my brother and veronica were playing and swimming together. i guess they were finished and my brother ran in the house to get them some towels. veronica gets out of the pool and basically straddles me. i was laughing because she was getting water all over me and we were wrestling a bit so i could get her off me, but out of nowhere she leans in and kisses me.
i was completely stuck and didn't really expect it. the kiss was brief. she saw my brother coming so we stopped. after that we would constantly sneak off to mess around. like i said, she was exciting and yeah every time i saw her i would want to kiss her. Until one day my brother caught me and veronica in bed. i felt like sh*t. i eventually called it quites with veronica and my brother broke up with her. i promised my brother i would never do that to him again and now we have grown a lot closer.
the experience was amazing, but i just wished it was with someone else. i really hope things go well with you and your girl. it sounds like you're really into her and i'm sure it would be a good first experience for the both of you. | Your first lesbian experience?(lesbians and bisexual girls only plz....haha duh)? please share your first lesbian experience with me?im fifteen and hav feelings for another girl.id like to compare your stories/feelings to mine. Please tell EVERYTHING about the relationship.how often did you want to kiss her?what was it like to kiss her?how did you meet?how did your parents react/find out? Did they know about it? Wat made you attracted to her?who made the first move? How? What made you love her/ like her as much as you did? What did she look like?androgynous?girly?what you thought about her before you were together? Just basically tell me your story.:) than ya:) | I never had a relationship with the girl, I jut made out with her. Anyways, I wanted to kiss her ALL the time. And when we had our first kiss it was awsome. We met in school last year and this year I heard she was Bi but I wasn't sure till she told me. My parents still don't know though, they might not ever know. Anyways, I think I'm attracted to her eyes and her humor.
I made the first move. We shared a bed in a hotel for a trip and she was staring at me and asked me what I was thinking about, I told her to guess and she guess that I wanted to kiss her. After what felt like FOREVER I finally kissed her and we made out for a while. I loved it and her. I'm still like her but we're just friends. I used to be completely in love with her and I thought she was SO perfect but now I'm over her...well...I like her a little less. |
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